You may find this hard to believe but I do not spend all of my
time thinking about sex. Today, I have been preoccupied with the
threat of violence at the SC. I’m the sex columnist, so I won’t give
you my opinion on the whole ordeal, but I thought we could explore the relationship between sex and violence.
My mother once told me that the differences between people are
not qualitative, but quantitative. When relating this to sex and
violence, this suggests that everyone likes at least a little S&M. To
what extent, is a different story. While some may enjoy a partner
playfully nibbling at their nipples, others may prefer being tied up
upside down with a rope between their testicles cutting off the
With that in mind, it is logical to see that people who we may
deem ‘sexual deviants’ just enjoy different quantities of certain
sexual elements. Hopefully seeing these people in this light can help us to understand (rather than ridicule) their preferences.
As always, however, consent is of utmost importance and
necessity. I support any of my readers fully if they want to anally
penetrate their partner, who is tied to a table, with a foreign
object, but the second the other person says “poodle” (or whatever the
safe word is), all activity must stop.
Love (in any way, shape or form),