Members of the Tribe must form a strong community of mutual support

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February 20, 2012

9:43 PM

The apparent suicide of a College of William and Mary freshman last week once again brings up the issue of student mental health and the measures the College can take to prevent future suicides.

Last year, a University of Virginia study found that suicide is the leading cause of death for American college students. Until 2010, there had been 10 suicides at the College in the previous 42 years — then in 2010 there were three student suicides over eight months. The recent death of Troy Pelish, if confirmed as a suicide, is one of many tragic cases to afflict the College in the past few years.

I do not believe college environments cause suicides; a multitude of factors explain why college campuses are often the site of so many suicides. Young adults, many living independently for the first time, can be overwhelmed by the sudden transition to college life and the pressure to make new friends. The rigor of academics can compound despair and frustration at times. Students at the College are among the best the nation has to offer, but the drive to do well in school only intensifies with time.

A couple of years ago, I attended a lecture on suicide prevention by a U.S. Air Force lieutenant colonel who had worked with service members suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder. The key point he made was that in any organization, whether military or academic, we are all essentially our brother’s keeper, and it is our duty to provide moral support to those who need it.

Obviously a battlefield is far more jarring than any college campus, but the same principles apply. The College emphasizes a small, tight-knit community where nobody is truly alone. Counseling services are always available, along with friends and professors who are there to listen and should keep an eye out for behavioral changes. People often show signs when they are in need, just as a suicide attempt often serves as a cry for help. Once those at risk for suicide have made the decision to go through with the act, they often show a suddenly improved demeanor because they know that the burden of life soon will be gone. This makes peer intervention and constant vigilance even more necessary.

And so I close with a plea to the Tribe: Watch each other’s backs. If you see a troubled friend, don’t hesitate to offer your help. If someone you know has been going through tough times, let them know that you’re there to listen. For someone on the brink of suicide, just having someone else to open up to can be enough to save a life.

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Ken Lin
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Senior staff writer Ken Lin '13 is a public policy major from Hillsborough, N.J. He was previously Associate News Editor.

(2) Readers Comments

  1. Rachael S. Datz
    February 22, 2012 at 9:50 AM

    Hi Ken, My name is Rachael, and I work for Active Minds, Inc. - a national non-profit organization made up of over 330 student-led chapters on college campuses throughout the country raising awareness about mental health and encouraging students to speak openly and seek help. (www.activeminds.org). I want to personally praise you for your thoughtful words on this tragedy - and for your call to action: for community support, an open environment, and a network of empathy. You speak to one of our main mission statements and really emphasize what is important in the aftermath of such an event. I thank you for your insight and willingness to share your thoughts. I wish your community the best in dealing with this unfortunate, tragic event. I hope that the campus can come together as a true "tribe."

  2. Rachael S. Datz
    February 22, 2012 at 9:55 AM

    Hi Ken, My name is Rachael and I work for Active Minds Inc., a national non-profit organization made up of over 330 student-led chapters on college campuses throughout the county - all working to raise awareness and change the conversation about mental health. (www.activeminds.org). I just want to personally praise you for your eloquent, insightful words in the wake of this recent tragedy. You speak to a highly important "call to action" - asking students to come together, to support one another, and to work to create a campus environment that encourages students to speak openly about mental health and ultimately seek help. Thank you for your insight and for sharing your feelings so openly. I wish your campus the best in dealing with this tragic, unfortunate event. I only hope that everyone can come together as a true "tribe."

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