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Students should find new ways to live up to the title of military friendly

The College of William and Mary is constantly ranked and graded, as recent reports have proven. Now the College can add another title to its long list of impressive achievements.

G.I. Jobs Magazine selected the College as a “Military Friendly School” last week. Of course, we students already knew that. Everyone has heard the fifes and drums ringing through the still air of Duke of Glouchester Street.

As much as we know about our history, however, we know relatively little about our present situation regarding military issues. Sure, ROTC has a visible presence on campus, but they are not as well known as other student groups. More importantly, we don’t know much about the state of veterans and service members seeking an education here on campus.

I was pleasantly surprised to learn of our new military friendly status. Of course, I’ve done nothing to help these men and women directly, but I appreciate the behind-the-scenes work of those who have.
Since the attacks of Sept. 11 and the ensuing conflict in the Middle East, our generation has been inundated with wartime media and increased coverage of the struggle some soldiers face when they return home.
How does one help? Often, there is no viable option. There’s no clear cut method, no obvious path that leads to the solution. It’s reassuring to know that those who have the ability to help are indeed helping. As is often the case, those who help the most receive the least thanks.

On a campus that prides itself on having over 400 clubs, I find it surprising that there are no clubs with the goal of offering aid to returning service men and women. Is it that we don’t know enough about the issue, or is it just a subject of little interest to students? I sincerely hope it’s the former. And if it is, I would love to see those who are in the know step up and inform the rest of us about how to help. Among the 6,000 of us, I am positive there are interested individuals and caring people who would want to help.

As with any title, the hardest part isn’t the acquiring the title. The hardest part is the defense of the title. We are a college of tradition and a college of excellence. When G.I. Jobs compiles the list of the most military friendly schools next year, the College should be high on the list.

The next time you hear the rustic fife and drum ensemble in Colonial Williamsburg, remember the soldiers of years past and thank the soldiers of the present. Let’s make this campus the campus of military friendliness. Perhaps the Griffin should wear a uniform for a day.

Cuccinelli is wasting the College’s time

The situation between State Senator Thomas Norment, Attorney General Ken Cuccinelli, Governor Bob McDonnell and President Taylor Reveley, which seemed dead and gone long ago, reared its ugly head when Cuccinelli released an opinion from then-Attornery General McDonnell, which essentially stated that the $160,000 Norment was paid by the College to teach government and law courses was not allowed to include legal counsel. The extent to which Norment served as “counselor and attorney” to Reveley is what irks Cuccinelli.

Norment is Virginia Senate Minority Leader and a powerful member of the Finance Committee, which gives him a lot of discretion in deciding how much money the College gets. We’re fortunate to have someone from our area with such influence, and obviously, we would like to have him on our side as much as possible. Reveley correctly pointed out that $160,000 is, first, not a ridiculous salary to pay someone with unparalleled knowledge of Virginia law and politics and, second, is nothing compared to what a lawyer with Norment’s experience could make in the private sector.

Clearly, Norment isn’t entirely motivated just by money — no one goes into either politics or academics because they’re get places to get paid. But a six-figure salary is nothing to sneeze at, and Virginia’s pension system is also based on the three highest-salary consecutive years, where an extra $100,000 makes quite a difference. Norment can insist that McDonnell said there was not a conflict of interest in his role as legal adviser, and Reveley can claim the relationship is nothing but professional all he wants — none of this matters. Of course there’s a conflict of interest; you can’t avoid one when you’re paying someone who’s responsible for appropriating you money.

No one is naive enough to think that politics play no role in how things get done. As long as we turn to Richmond for funds, we’re going to have to play by an ever-changing set of rules. We don’t know what happens behind the scenes when three of the state’s five most powerful Republicans start to wheel and deal.
Not that what is going on isn’t a good thing for the College community — if it means more money coming down the pipeline, Reveley shouldn’t hesitate to use both hook and crook — but Norment’s previous relationship with the College seemed to cause more trouble than it was worth. The more Norment walked like a duck, swam like a duck and quacked like a duck, the harder it was to take claims seriously that he wasn’t a duck. But Norment is capable of advocating plenty for the College without making six figures, and his current reduced role reflects that.

It seems simpler to avoid hassles with the attorney general’s office and simply let Norment serve his main purpose, which is to represent his constituents. No matter his involvement with the College, one would hope Williamsburg’s senator is a strong advocate for the College. Thank goodness Norment is. Norment already does a lot to try and make sure the College stays adequately funded, and we should be confident he’ll continue to do so.

However, if Cuccinelli wants to make the case that the College shouldn’t have access to legal services that don’t come from his office, the College should fight back forcefully, making the case that public university status is insufficient for the Attorney General to have complete control over something so basic. The College has employed non-state attorneys for many years, and it isn’t about to hamstring itself by stopping now.

In this situation, it’s best if the College lets this go, trusts Senior Assistant attorney general Deborah Love to do her job, and generally tries to avoid problems with Cuccinelli. The College has more pressing issues to deal with, and it doesn’t need to waste its political capital on something so inconsequential. In return, however, Reveley should be able to expect more trust from Cuccinelli. They don’t have to be best friends, but the College has too much at stake not to have a working relationship.

Men’s soccer: College blanks Seahawks in CAA opener

William and Mary withstood six shots on goal from UNC-Wilmington and managed to hold on to a 1-0 lead Saturday night to snap a two-game losing streak and win its conference opener in their first CAA game of the season.

“That was a good start for us, knowing how difficult every conference game is,” head coach Chris Norris said. “Fortunately for us, we were the recipient of some big plays.”

Sophomore midfielder John Ciampa scored his first goal of the season early in the second half when junior midfielder Ben Anderson headed a pass back to Ciampa, who struck a volley past the goalkeeper for what would prove to be the game-winning goal.

“More than anything, it was quality service from [freshman midfielder] Josh West,” Norris said. “In this situation, we had a number of guys who recycled their runs. John was in a good spot and he finished it well.”

Before taking the lead, the Tribe limited UNC-W to just one shot on goal, but the Seahawks came back with a flurry late in the second half. The Seahawks nearly equalized in the 74th minute, but had an apparent goal called back due to a handball. On a run that began in the 78th minute, Wilmington garnered three corner kicks — they had seven in the second half alone — and forced senior goalkeeper Colin Smolinsky to make four saves.Smolinsky withstood the run for his second shutout of the season.

“Wilmington is a team that thrives on set pieces,” Norris said. “We just tried to stay composed and not panic and stick to our individual responsibilities.”

The Tribe was fortunate not to be down earlier, when a well-placed free kick, the Seahawks’ only offensive threat in the first half, looked headed for goal. Smolinsky had to dive to knock the ball away.

“We were fortunate that Colin made some great saves when we needed them,” Norris said. “It was great for us to get back on what hopefully becomes a shutout trail.”

The Tribe didn’t put any additional offensive pressure on the Seahawks following their goal. Wilmington outperformed the College in shots (11 to nine) and shots on goal (six to three). Norris acknowledged there are areas his team needs to work on, but said he was satisfied with the victory and the team’s performance.

“More than anything else, it’s just part of the process. Hopefully we can learn those lessons quickly and eradicate those mistakes early in the season,” he said. “We think we’re making strides. We’re becoming more and more dangerous every game.”

Women’s soccer: Tribe snaps winless streak with 2-0 win over Princeton

A pair of second-half goals and top-notch goalkeeping gave William and Mary the edge over Princeton Friday, breaking a three-game winless streak as the team concluded its non-conference schedule.

The Tribe, trying to fight its way back into the national rankings after a disappointing loss to Richmond and tie with East Carolina, moved to 5-1-3 on the season with goals from freshman forward Emory Camper and junior midfielder Mallory Schaffer in a contentious matchup with the Tigers.

“This is huge,” Schaffer said. “Three games without a win, to get one [Friday night] is clutch.”

Chances were abundant for both sides in the first, but some excellent goalie play kept the game scoreless in the first half.

Junior goalkeeper Katherine Yount asserted herself in goal midway through the first period. A deflected Princeton pass found Princeton forward Sara Chehrehsa with a good look at goal from about 16 yards out. She fired at the top left corner, but Yount made a high-flying save to keep the game tied.

The Tribe nearly got on the board in the 36th minute when a bounding loose ball wound up at Schaffer’s feet just outside the 18 yard box. Schaffer ripped a shot on goal, but this time it was Princeton keeper Claire Pinciaro making the beautiful diving save. At the end of the first period, the Tribe had the advantage in shots, eight to seven, and Pinciaro had already racked up seven saves.

The game got testy in the secon half, as the two teams fought hard to gain an advantage. In the 53rd minute, an altercation after a hard sliding tackle erupted between freshman forward Anna Madden and Princeton’s Kacie Kergides. With Madden on her back and Kergides standing over her, the Tiger appeared to step on Madden.

“Coming into the game, we knew they were going to be tough competiton,” Schaffer said. “When it’s that close of a game, chippiness happens. It’s part of the game.”

Play was stopped and both were handed yellow cards, but the physicality from both sides continued.
“That’s just two teams fighting hard to get a win,” head coach John Daly said.

The College finally broke through in the 65th minute. Camper, who had only recently came onto the pitch as a substitution, made a well-timed run to get behind the Tigers’s defense and received a beautiful through ball from Schaffer. With only the keeper to beat, Camper tucked it in the right side of the net from about six yards out for her fifth goal of the season to give the Tribe a 1-0 lead.

Schaffer then put the game out of reach in the 73rd. Freshman defender Emily Fredrikson sent a free kick into the box. Camper stuck her foot out and got a piece of it, sending it right to Schaffer behind the defense, who looped it over Pinciaro for her fourth of the year.

“I don’t know how I got the ball, but [Camper] got a great touch on it,” Schaffer said. “I just managed to get a touch in over the keeper.”

Daly said the win served as a much-needed confidence boost with the team heading into its conference schedule, which will begin when Towson comes to Martin Family Stadium Friday.

“It helps [going into CAA play],” he said. “We were beginning to wonder, three games without a win.”

Women’s soccer: Tribe snaps winless streak with 2-0 win over Princeton

A pair of second-half goals and top-notch goalkeeping gave William and Mary the edge over Princeton Friday, breaking a three-game winless streak as the team concluded its non-conference schedule.

The Tribe, trying to fight its way back into the national rankings after a disappointing loss to Richmond and tie with East Carolina, moved to 5-1-3 on the season with goals from freshman forward Emory Camper and junior midfielder Mallory Schaffer in a contentious matchup with the Tigers.

“This is huge,” Schaffer said. “Three games without a win, to get one [Friday night] is clutch.”

Chances were abundant for both sides in the first, but some excellent goalie play kept the game scoreless in the first half.

Junior goalkeeper Katherine Yount asserted herself in goal midway through the first period. A deflected Princeton pass found Princeton forward Sara Chehrehsa with a good look at goal from about 16 yards out. She fired at the top left corner, but Yount made a high-flying save to keep the game tied.

The Tribe nearly got on the board in the 36th minute when a bounding loose ball wound up at Schaffer’s feet just outside the 18 yard box. Schaffer ripped a shot on goal, but this time it was Princeton keeper Claire Pinciaro making the beautiful diving save. At the end of the first period, the Tribe had the advantage in shots, eight to seven, and Pinciaro had already racked up seven saves.

The game got testy in the secon half, as the two teams fought hard to gain an advantage. In the 53rd minute, an altercation after a hard sliding tackle erupted between freshman forward Anna Madden and Princeton’s Kacie Kergides. With Madden on her back and Kergides standing over her, the Tiger appeared to step on Madden.

“Coming into the game, we knew they were going to be tough competiton,” Schaffer said. “When it’s that close of a game, chippiness happens. It’s part of the game.”

Play was stopped and both were handed yellow cards, but the physicality from both sides continued.
“That’s just two teams fighting hard to get a win,” head coach John Daly said.

The College finally broke through in the 65th minute. Camper, who had only recently came onto the pitch as a substitution, made a well-timed run to get behind the Tigers’s defense and received a beautiful through ball from Schaffer. With only the keeper to beat, Camper tucked it in the right side of the net from about six yards out for her fifth goal of the season to give the Tribe a 1-0 lead.

Schaffer then put the game out of reach in the 73rd. Freshman defender Emily Fredrikson sent a free kick into the box. Camper stuck her foot out and got a piece of it, sending it right to Schaffer behind the defense, who looped it over Pinciaro for her fourth of the year.

“I don’t know how I got the ball, but [Camper] got a great touch on it,” Schaffer said. “I just managed to get a touch in over the keeper.”

Daly said the win served as a much-needed confidence boost with the team heading into its conference schedule, which will begin when Towson comes to Martin Family Stadium Friday.

“It helps [going into CAA play],” he said. “We were beginning to wonder, three games without a win.”

Column: Answers in demand

I know how easy it is to immediately jump to conclusions. It only takes a couple of consecutive losses, a couple of heartbreakers, or — in the Tribe’s case — a very close call against a Division II team to ring in pessimism and doubt about the season. The Tribe was ranked No. 1 in the FCS in the coaches’ preseason poll, and was even believed to stand a chance against notorious rival Virginia. So far the squad has failed to live up to the expectations, losing toVirginia in a 40-3 landslide, and barely beating New Haven by a final score of 13-10. Heading into the start of its conference schedule — a sold-out showdown with No. 12 James Madison at Zable Stadium Saturday — a number of questions about this team remain.

First, is there a quarterback on the roster who can lead this team to the FCS playoffs? Senior quarterback Mike Paulus — the North Carolina transfer who was supposed to be the clear starter for the 2011 campaign — has now been benched twice in three games for his failure to move the ball through the air. With a 37.5 percent completion rate, and an efficiency rating of 72.2, Paulus has struggled mightily with his accuracy. Sophomore Michael Graham has fared better, leading the Tribe on its only scoring drive of the UVa. game and playing an integral part of the New Haven win. He’s shown that he has the potential to take the reins, but Laycock won’t commit to the sophomore just yet. So if not Graham, who?

Secondly, can the College’s defense keep swarming? The unit kept the Virginia game close for as long as possible, allowed just one score to Virginia Military Institute and essentially won the game Saturday night.
The Tribe held the Chargers to 33 rushing yards on 27 carries, and recorded three key interceptions. Laycock knows that this team can only go as far as the defense takes it, if that. Last year, the Tribe was No. 1 in the nation in run defense, and second in points allowed. As of right now, it appears as though the team will have to produce near that level to give the Tribe a shot at defending its CAA title.

And finally, the most obvious: If this team can’t do any better than a three-point margin over New Haven, how can it be expected to win games against teams like JMU? With the high rankings comes pressure to perform, and a tendency from every opponent to want to knock you from your perch. It’s true that
sometimes it often takes a team a couple of games to start playing to its potential, and that some don’t reach their peak until later in the season. But starting Saturday, Laycock’s squad will really have to start finding answers.

Football: Too close for comfort

William and Mary narrowly escaped a loss to New Haven Saturday night, making just enough key plays to pull out a 13-10 victory over the Division II Chargers. The Tribe improved to 2-1 on the season.

Two field goals from sophomore kicker Drake Kuhn and three interceptions by the Tribe’s defense made the difference, but the headline from Saturday is the brewing quarterback controversy.

Starting senior quarterback Mike Paulus was benched after a first half in which he went just two of six for seven yards and an interception. The teams went into the locker room knotted at three, but on the Tribe’s first possession in the second half, head coach Jimmye Laycock made the switch to sophomore Michael Graham, who led the College on a lead-taking touchdown drive to start the third quarter. After starting the season as third on the depth chart behind Paulus and sophomore Brent Caprio, Graham finished the game at six of 11 for 112 yards, a touchdown and no interceptions.

“Mike [Paulus] wasn’t doing very well and it’s just like anything, he isn’t doing very well, we’ll give somebody else a chance. He was making some mistakes with throws, he was making some mistakes with some of the calls out there, so it wasn’t his night. We went with Mike Graham,” Laycock said, adding that he didn’t know who would start when James Madison comes to Williamsburg in the team’s conference schedule opener next Saturday. “It’s too early to tell what we do on that right now. We have to evaluate this and see where we go next week.”

The College’s running game, on the other hand, pounded New Haven’s front line throughout the game, as the Tribe racked up a total of 156 yards on the ground. Senior half back Jonathan Grimes set a career-high in carries with 31 and ran for 129 yards to go along with his team-leading four catches, including a go-ahead touchdown grab in the third quarter.

“I don’t even know the number [of carries], but at the moment you’re just trying to do whatever you have to do to get a win,” Grimes said. “No matter how many times they give you the ball, whenever your number’s called, you got to make something happen.”

The Tribe dug itself an early hole, opening the game with the ball and promptly going three and out. On fourth down, Kuhn’s punt was blocked, setting the Chargers up on the College’s 30 yard line, but the defense answered the call — as it would throughout — and held New Haven’s offense, led by Louisville-transfer quarterback Ryan Osiecki, to just a field goal.

The College’s offensive struggles only continued as the first quarter wore on. After another punt on its second drive, Grimes started the team’s third possession with five consecutive runs, moving the ball from the Tribe’s 22 to New Haven’s 39 with ease. But when Paulus’ number was finally called, he erased the team’s progress, rolling out of the pocket on 2nd and 6 and hitting Charger linebacker Mike Gomes between the numbers for an interception.

Down 3-0 late in the second quarter, the defense came up big again. Junior corner back B.W. Webb made an acrobatic interception on a tipped Osiecki pass, giving the Tribe the ball on New Haven’s 35. After three Grimes rushes gave the team a first down, the junior broke off a big gainer, scampering 21 yards before being pushed out of bounds on the Chargers’ three. A false start penalty derailed the push for a touchdown, but Kuhn tied the game at 3 with a 21 yard field goal as the clock wound down on the first half.

Laycock was blunt about what needed to improve in the passing game.

“We got to block better, we got to protect better, we got to throw better, we got to catch better. Other than that, we’re pretty good,” he said.

When Graham came out to start the third quarter, the light came on for the team’s offense.
“I just remember [Graham] being very positive when he came in the huddle. He kind of motivated [the offense] before the play just like ‘let’s go, let’s get in.’” Grimes said. “I think he gained our confidence pretty fast pretty well.”

Graham made completions for gains of 15, six and 16, leading the team on a 10-play, 48 yard drive that culminated in an 11-yard touchdown pass from Graham to Grimes, putting the Tribe up 10-3.
“I was ready to go. I knew our offense needed a spark,” Graham said.

But New Haven answered in the fourth with an eight play, 80 yard drive ending with a 17-yard touchdown throw by quarterback Ryan Oseicki to receiver Demetrius Ellis-Washington to tie the game at 10.

With 8:17 left in the fourth, Graham made the offensive play of the game, hitting senior wide receiver D.J. Mangas up the seam for a gain of 56 to set the Tribe up for a 28 yard field goal from Kuhn to give the College a 13-10 lead with five minutes, 28 seconds left in the game.

“He just busted the coverage,” Graham said. “He was wide open and I just threw it to him.”

But New Haven looked like it was ready to at least tie the game up on its next possession. Chargers quarterback Ryan Oseicki threw complete to receiver Jason Thompson, who darted down to the Tribe’s 18 yard line for a gain of 39. On the ensuing third down, though, Mines picked off Osiecki’s throw at the goal line and ran it back to the College’s 35 yard line, all but sealing the win for the College.

“We knew it was a situation where they were going deep,” Mines said. “We studied film all week and coach told me to drop and get deep I got as deep as possible in my drop, I saw the ball and I just tried to make a play for my team.”

The College will have to find answers to the looming questions quickly, as the No. 12 JMU Dukes will be at Zable Saturday for a clash of two CAA rivals, but Laycock said the team is focusing on its own game, not its opponent.

Football: Too close for comfort

William and Mary narrowly escaped a loss to New Haven Saturday night, making just enough key plays to pull out a 13-10 victory over the Division II Chargers. The Tribe improved to 2-1 on the season.

Two field goals from sophomore kicker Drake Kuhn and three interceptions by the Tribe’s defense made the difference, but the headline from Saturday is the brewing quarterback controversy.

Starting senior quarterback Mike Paulus was benched after a first half in which he went just two of six for seven yards and an interception. The teams went into the locker room knotted at three, but on the Tribe’s first possession in the second half, head coach Jimmye Laycock made the switch to sophomore Michael Graham, who led the College on a lead-taking touchdown drive to start the third quarter. After starting the season as third on the depth chart behind Paulus and sophomore Brent Caprio, Graham finished the game at six of 11 for 112 yards, a touchdown and no interceptions.

“Mike [Paulus] wasn’t doing very well and it’s just like anything, he isn’t doing very well, we’ll give somebody else a chance. He was making some mistakes with throws, he was making some mistakes with some of the calls out there, so it wasn’t his night. We went with Mike Graham,” Laycock said, adding that he didn’t know who would start when James Madison comes to Williamsburg in the team’s conference schedule opener next Saturday. “It’s too early to tell what we do on that right now. We have to evaluate this and see where we go next week.”

The College’s running game, on the other hand, pounded New Haven’s front line throughout the game, as the Tribe racked up a total of 156 yards on the ground. Senior half back Jonathan Grimes set a career-high in carries with 31 and ran for 129 yards to go along with his team-leading four catches, including a go-ahead touchdown grab in the third quarter.

“I don’t even know the number [of carries], but at the moment you’re just trying to do whatever you have to do to get a win,” Grimes said. “No matter how many times they give you the ball, whenever your number’s called, you got to make something happen.”

The Tribe dug itself an early hole, opening the game with the ball and promptly going three and out. On fourth down, Kuhn’s punt was blocked, setting the Chargers up on the College’s 30 yard line, but the defense answered the call — as it would throughout — and held New Haven’s offense, led by Louisville-transfer quarterback Ryan Osiecki, to just a field goal.

The College’s offensive struggles only continued as the first quarter wore on. After another punt on its second drive, Grimes started the team’s third possession with five consecutive runs, moving the ball from the Tribe’s 22 to New Haven’s 39 with ease. But when Paulus’ number was finally called, he erased the team’s progress, rolling out of the pocket on 2nd and 6 and hitting Charger linebacker Mike Gomes between the numbers for an interception.

Down 3-0 late in the second quarter, the defense came up big again. Junior corner back B.W. Webb made an acrobatic interception on a tipped Osiecki pass, giving the Tribe the ball on New Haven’s 35. After three Grimes rushes gave the team a first down, the junior broke off a big gainer, scampering 21 yards before being pushed out of bounds on the Chargers’ three. A false start penalty derailed the push for a touchdown, but Kuhn tied the game at 3 with a 21 yard field goal as the clock wound down on the first half.

Laycock was blunt about what needed to improve in the passing game.

“We got to block better, we got to protect better, we got to throw better, we got to catch better. Other than that, we’re pretty good,” he said.

When Graham came out to start the third quarter, the light came on for the team’s offense.
“I just remember [Graham] being very positive when he came in the huddle. He kind of motivated [the offense] before the play just like ‘let’s go, let’s get in.’” Grimes said. “I think he gained our confidence pretty fast pretty well.”

Graham made completions for gains of 15, six and 16, leading the team on a 10-play, 48 yard drive that culminated in an 11-yard touchdown pass from Graham to Grimes, putting the Tribe up 10-3.
“I was ready to go. I knew our offense needed a spark,” Graham said.

But New Haven answered in the fourth with an eight play, 80 yard drive ending with a 17-yard touchdown throw by quarterback Ryan Oseicki to receiver Demetrius Ellis-Washington to tie the game at 10.

With 8:17 left in the fourth, Graham made the offensive play of the game, hitting senior wide receiver D.J. Mangas up the seam for a gain of 56 to set the Tribe up for a 28 yard field goal from Kuhn to give the College a 13-10 lead with five minutes, 28 seconds left in the game.

“He just busted the coverage,” Graham said. “He was wide open and I just threw it to him.”

But New Haven looked like it was ready to at least tie the game up on its next possession. Chargers quarterback Ryan Oseicki threw complete to receiver Jason Thompson, who darted down to the Tribe’s 18 yard line for a gain of 39. On the ensuing third down, though, Mines picked off Osiecki’s throw at the goal line and ran it back to the College’s 35 yard line, all but sealing the win for the College.

“We knew it was a situation where they were going deep,” Mines said. “We studied film all week and coach told me to drop and get deep I got as deep as possible in my drop, I saw the ball and I just tried to make a play for my team.”

The College will have to find answers to the looming questions quickly, as the No. 12 JMU Dukes will be at Zable Saturday for a clash of two CAA rivals, but Laycock said the team is focusing on its own game, not its opponent.

Behind Closed Doors: The truth about faking orgasms

Most guys I know will swear that they’ve never been with a girl who faked an orgasm. Most girls I know will swear that they don’t orgasm every time they have sex. A lot of girls I know are having sex with guys I know. So what gives?

The fact of the matter is, the male orgasm is pretty easy to understand, or at least to recognize. There’s generally a change in shape and size of the genitalia, which often comes bundled with the release of a white, sticky substance that acts as a handy notice that orgasm has occurred. The female orgasm is a little trickier. Sometimes it’s hard enough for a woman to recognize that she came, let alone to have her partner recognize it. What do we usually think of when we think of a woman orgasming? Screaming, panting, clenching muscles, and the ceasing of sexual activity. Women know this and are able to recreate these physical “symptoms” of orgasm, if you will, on command. Let’s see a man do that.

There’s an obvious point here: Women can pretend to orgasm, without actually having an orgasm. Assuming that women like to get sexual release, why would they engage in such a deceptive maneuver that generally ends the sexual encounter?

There are lots of possible reasons. Maybe the woman no longer feels like having sex. It’s a shame to say, but it’s true. The wrong sex with the wrong person at the wrong time can be boring. If the woman feels like her time is better spent elsewhere, she may fake the big “O” to have a convenient excuse to stop. The person and time could be right, but it could still be uncomfortable. The nature of sex involves creating friction. Friction can be a wonderful force of nature, but it can also create dryness and soreness in the direction of a woman’s nether regions. Again, pretending to orgasm can create an out that doesn’t involve telling a partner that the sex is unpleasant. Maybe the woman is looking out for her partner. I have been lucky enough to have partners that genuinely care about whether or not I get off and who try to stave off their own pleasure so that I can have my fair share. Sometimes, though, it’s very obvious to me that no matter how long the sex goes on, it’s just not going to happen. That doesn’t mean it isn’t enjoyable, but it can get frustrating or tiresome after too long. Instead of making the other person feel guilty, I may have tried to send the right signals to let my partner know that it was okay for him to succumb to his own physical desires, because mine had been met. Some people take it personally if their partner doesn’t come, seeing it as their own failure, when there’s a possibility that it simply doesn’t have anything to do with them. But knowing that your partner expects you to come can create pressure for you to do so, which in turn can keep you from it — leading to a potential fauxgasm.

I don’t recommend this course of action, because if your partner believes you are orgasming, it stands to reckon that he or she thinks you are being sexually fulfilled. But if you are indeed faking it, you’re really doing yourself a disservice by not allowing yourself to reach your sexual potential. But sometimes, the road of fake orgasms seems like the best one, and in that case, please fake it well. An obviously fake orgasm is awkward for everyone involved. In my most recent relationship, I fauxgasmed once, and only once, because it was obvious to my partner what I was doing, and he called my bluff. A real orgasm is better than a fake orgasm, but no orgasm at all is better than a bad rendition of one.

__Tyna is a Behind Closed Doors columnist and thinks that the road to fauxgasms should be the road less traveled.__

Students run to support their peers

Sunday’s Run for the Green and Gold 5K acted as one of the first illuminations into an often invisible disparity between students on campus. Many students face financial problems and the weight of the wallet indirectly affects their social interactions on a daily basis.

To draw attention to the issue of socioeconomic diversity, students endured the chilly bite of the morning to run 3.1 miles around campus, raising money for Student Assembly’s $2,000 Socioeconomic Fund Scholarship, which the SA will award after an application process at the end of the year.

In terms of acknowledging and celebrating diversity at the College, frequently broadcasted issues like race, gender, and sexual orientation can often overwhelm the discussion of financial differences.

“I think most people don’t want to draw attention to [socioeconomic diversity] because it’s a sore subject,” Sarah Prowitt ’14, a race participant, said. “It’s almost a social norm to not talk about it.”

Though it is more comfortable to camouflage the financial inequalities, many aspects of students’ lives necessitate some acknowledgment of the topic.

“I think it is one of the most important issues on campus because William and Mary is a state school and with that comes the de facto privatization of schools like us across the country,” Edward Hunt ’03, a race participant, said. “State schools are supposed to promise access to higher education for the community in the area, but with the increasing fees and tuition that becomes impossible for people without the economic means.”

The cost of room and board, tuition and textbooks can weigh heavily upon students and their families; when struggling to fulfill these obligations, even modest expenses can seem momentous.

“During the hurricane when even the buses to Northern Virginia were a $25 charge — that’s going to mean something different to people dealing with hardships,” Anne Charity-Hudley, co-director of the William and Mary Scholars Undergraduate Experience (WMSURE) said. “It’s not always the large things but the small, unexpected events that come up — like if you have to go to the hospital and have to pay that bill — along with everything else going on campus.”

Additionally, economically disadvantaged students often struggle beyond traditional financial difficulties, contributing to an arduous acclimation into the William and Mary community.

“These students usually have problems besides money because money creates stress,” Alexa McDorman ’13, Undersecretary of Socioeconomic Affairs, said. “It’s a different culture and many low income students don’t graduate — but not because of money.”

This unique perspective can elucidate not only the struggles of these particular students, but also other factors that contribute to students’ time at the College.

“People have different economic backgrounds all the way across the spectrum and sometimes you don’t see how that diversity affects people — positively and in challenging ways,” Charity-Hudley said. “It’s important to look at how it affects who you’re friends with, your experiences in your courses, and also what happens with the experiences that you bring.”

As both a William and Mary Scholar and Undersecretary of Socioeconomic Affairs, McDorman acts as a liaison between the two separate organizations; her personal connection to this topic transcends planning the fundraisers and contributes to her viewpoint when making decisions and presenting ideas in the SA.

“I think it’s awesome to the student initiative in this because when you are a person of color people will know right away, but to see someone who maybe doesn’t look that different bring this up is something crucial,” Charity-Hudley said.

This 5K was the first of many events led by the SA Department of Diversity to raise money for the Socioeconomic Fund Scholarship and, in effect, to increase awareness about this type of diversity on campus.

“Beyond the 5K we’re going to be doing a couple of bake sales, a lot of open talks about socioeconomic problems at the campus, and we’re planning a benefit concert during the I AM WM week sometime next semester,” Brianna May ’12, Secretary of Diversity Initiatives in the SA, said. “Other than that, we are pretty much just taking small initiatives like sending information out to alumni asking for donations to the scholarship fund.”

Moreover, further involvement of others in the SA’s pursuits bolsters a greater sense of community engagement.

“From the Scholars viewpoint is just making students aware of what scholarships are out there, what programs are available, and knowing about opportunities like possible fee wavers when they’re applying to grad school,” Charity-Hudley said. “It’s not just that we need the money but we need the awareness so that students can know how we can help.”