Archive for Behind Closed Doors

The virgin-slut complex

The virgin-slut complex

Posted On: November 14, 2013

Either you are sexually active or you aren’t, and, either way, you’re facing criticism. [...]

Do you feel so dirty when they start talking cute?

Do you feel so dirty when they start talking cute?

Posted On: October 23, 2013

Don’t tell her that you love her because the point is actually moot: Why you need to let [...]

Who’s the man? Don’t go there, gramps

Who’s the man? Don’t go there, gramps

Posted On: October 17, 2013

“So which one of ’em’s the lady?” [...]

No reason to freak over losing your v-card

No reason to freak over losing your v-card

Posted On: October 03, 2013

You shouldn't worry about pleasing the judgmental haters, because being deflowered isn’t the same as being devalued [...]

Navigating the hook up culture

Navigating the hook up culture

Posted On: September 26, 2013

Casual flings are a fact of life in college, leading to hilarity and heartbreak. [...]

The myth of friends

The myth of friends

Posted On: September 26, 2013

Growing up, I’d always had a lot of guy friends. College guys? A whole different story. [...]

And this is why I avoid sitting on public furniture

And this is why I avoid sitting on public furniture

Posted On: September 26, 2013

“Did you hear about Michelle and Tom? I heard they had sex on the couch you’re sitting on.” [...]

Regrets are overrated, but awkwardness is real

Regrets are overrated, but awkwardness is real

Posted On: September 26, 2013

“I should have sex with a boy,” I thought to myself. “I should have sex with Landon. This [...]

I think I love you, so what am I so afraid of?

I think I love you, so what am I so afraid of?

Posted On: September 19, 2013

“I love you” is a scary thing for a lot of people to say because it implies a [...]

Strap on, strap off: Make the most of your toys

Strap on, strap off: Make the most of your toys

Posted On: September 12, 2013

Not every relationship involves a penis — lesbian relationships, for instance, where both sides are equipped with vaginas [...]