Archive for Behind Closed Doors

Behind Closed Doors: Final Words of Wisdom

Behind Closed Doors: Final Words of Wisdom

Posted On: November 14, 2016

I have had the honor and pleasure to serve as a Behind Closed Doors columnist for two whole [...]

Behind Closed Doors: Getting over your first big breakup

Behind Closed Doors: Getting over your first big breakup

Posted On: November 07, 2016

There’s something so wonderful about our first relationships, and also something so incredibly naive. I don’t know about [...]

Behind Closed Doors: The ambiguity of hooking up

Behind Closed Doors: The ambiguity of hooking up

Posted On: October 31, 2016

“Hooking up” is my least favorite phrase. Don’t get me wrong, I am all for the act of [...]

Behind Closed Doors: twenty-first century seduction

Behind Closed Doors: twenty-first century seduction

Posted On: October 24, 2016

I’m a millennial. You’re most likely a millennial, and we definitely all communicate via social media and texting. [...]

Behind Closed Doors: Coming Out Proud

Behind Closed Doors: Coming Out Proud

Posted On: October 17, 2016

This past week, the College of William and Mary has been celebrating National Coming Out Week. I don’t [...]

Behind Closed Doors: Being naked and feeling free

Behind Closed Doors: Being naked and feeling free

Posted On: October 03, 2016

Being naked is great. I love taking naps naked. I love brushing my teeth naked. I love cuddling [...]

Behind Closed Doors: rethinking racial fetishization

Behind Closed Doors: rethinking racial fetishization

Posted On: September 26, 2016

A couple of weeks ago, I was catcalled while walking down Jamestown Road, headphones in, probably thinking about [...]

Behind Closed Doors: Talk dirty to me, or not

Behind Closed Doors: Talk dirty to me, or not

Posted On: September 20, 2016

Since I challenged all of you to talk about sex and push the boundaries of your comfort zone, [...]

Behind Closed Doors: Do age differences count?

Behind Closed Doors: Do age differences count?

Posted On: September 12, 2016

The other day I was thinking about how on Tinder — and pretty much every other dating app [...]

Behind Closed Doors: Opening the Doors in Your Relationship

Behind Closed Doors: Opening the Doors in Your Relationship

Posted On: September 05, 2016

It’s probably pretty clear that I like talking about sex. I mean, I write a column called “Behind [...]