Archive for ElaineB

First thing’s first: Losing your virginity isn’t inherently special

First thing’s first: Losing your virginity isn’t inherently special

Posted On: April 15, 2013

When my boyfriend and I had sex the first time I thought it was more special because I [...]

Behind Closed Doors: No gray morality here — lack of consent always equals rape

Behind Closed Doors: No gray morality here — lack of consent always equals rape

Posted On: April 01, 2013

A very dear friend of mine was raped not too long ago. You guys, this is not a [...]

Behind Closed Doors: The politics of cuddling — When intimacy becomes complicated

Behind Closed Doors: The politics of cuddling — When intimacy becomes complicated

Posted On: February 25, 2013

Why do I want to have sex? Do I actually want these random, awkward encounters as much as [...]

Behind Closed Doors: Girls’ night in

Behind Closed Doors: Girls’ night in

Posted On: February 04, 2013

I have always found women attractive, and I’ve kissed my fair share of girls. When I first started [...]

Behind Closed Doors: Be positive about staying negative, make sure you’re STD-free

Behind Closed Doors: Be positive about staying negative, make sure you’re STD-free

Posted On: January 21, 2013

If it’s been more than a year since you’ve been tested, get yourself to a clinic, pee in [...]

Behind Closed Doors: Hot at the ballot box

Behind Closed Doors: Hot at the ballot box

Posted On: November 12, 2012

Hands down, the thing that got me hottest last week was Tuesday’s election, so — you guessed it [...]

Behind Closed Doors: Going in the back door

Behind Closed Doors: Going in the back door

Posted On: October 22, 2012

Let’s talk about anal sex. It’s a topic I have delicately avoided for ages because it scared me, [...]

Behind Closed Doors: Exchanging whispers and euphemisms for open dialogue

Behind Closed Doors: Exchanging whispers and euphemisms for open dialogue

Posted On: October 01, 2012

Talking about sex with your partner is key to having good sex. But for some reason, that’s easier [...]

Behind Closed Doors: Myth-busting — Porn isn’t gross and it’s not just for guys

Behind Closed Doors: Myth-busting — Porn isn’t gross and it’s not just for guys

Posted On: September 17, 2012

Let’s talk about porn. That nasty, dirty, trashy realm of surgically enhanced, heavily made-up blowjob queens and 12-inch [...]

Behind Closed Doors: The right and wrong ways to get your hands dirty

Behind Closed Doors: The right and wrong ways to get your hands dirty

Posted On: September 03, 2012

Among guys, the general consensus on handjobs seems to be that you’re never going to get one that’s [...]